Tuesday 27 December 2011

Love & Hip Hop Season 2 Episode 6: Kimbella and Erica Mena Fight. Erica gets a busted eye in fight! Then Erica calls the cops!

I didn't write up the last show because it was boring but this show is really something. Chrissy Lampkins is still crying about the old 'marriage' story. Emma still on about Fab. The only good thing is new arrival Erica Mena who had a bad attitude - I mean pretty nasty and gets down and dirty in a real girly fight with Kimbella and the police are called. Well Erica Mena demands the police or medics are called in. Then the Olivia story.

Kimbella vs Erica Mena: battle of booty girls turned the video girls turned singers

I thought Kimbella was slutty but Erica is a downright dirty whore or hoe. Did you see her outfit? One pull of what she was wearing and her boobs would have popped out. She looked naked underneath that jumpsuit of hers.

Erica already has beef with Kimbella without ever meeting her that Kimbella's type is bringing down the industry by doing things for near free. Its the same Olivia vs Somaya battle of levels only it turns physical.

Erica doesn't consider Kimbella a model but more 'soft porn: one hundred and one ways you can bend over.'  Erica says she had done adverts, editorials, campagins and not just flash her T&A at boy magazines. Erica is really angry at Kimbella and what she represents. Infact she inplies she is a real model and Kimbella is just a hustler.  But in all fairness like Olivia and Somaya - they are both on the same level which is - Love and Hip Hop.

"Just because you are groupie and have slept with a few artists doesn't mean you are a model' says Erica Mena. 'Girls like me have to give the reminder.' Then Erica goes on to say. 'You think you have won the jack pot because you got someone to knock you up. (must mean rapper Juelz Santana), you got somebody with an little money to knock up up.'  You can litereally see the steam of hate buzzing from Erica's ears.

Erica keeps going on with the insults and abuse. Kimbella throws a drink in her face then it all kicks off. The girl fight again. I wish it was Chrissy because Chrissy knows how to. It's a girly fight with spitting, sratching and clawing each other. They don't know each other but Kimbella seems to attract a lot of hostility from other women. I think she is okay but the girls seem to really dislike her.

Even if just for her child Kimbella should not allow people to talk and disrespect her in that way. It's not worth the money because poeple think it's real as in reality TV. This is not a some acting job and so can affect her in real life. What about her family and those close to her seeing her rediculed just to get famous.

It seems real because even the cameramen get involved in trying to separate them.  And Yandi is saying 'Erica it's enough, let her go.'



They still won't let go. I think Kimbella is making up for Chrissy Lampkin so it's real. Then the other staff behind the cameras step in.

Finally they are separated and Erica is lead away from another behind the scenes staff asking if she is okay.

So Kimbella apparently had busted up Erica's eye. Wow - it's all that Chrissy anger that has come out. So Erica is all she had F&$ked up my eye. Then she runs back for another run but is stopped. Her parting words - 'I know where to catch up.'

Erica can't really afford to have a black eye or a cut because beauty is her business. Her face is her business but really she should go picking fights. Anyway I heard that VH1 is going to ban all glass around their cast and now they will only drink from plastic given the girl on girl violence. That fight was real.



Kimbella's face is all bruised with some bleeding. And they are putting on some sort of salve/dressing to it. You can see her face is all marshed up. Brusied, red and swollen.

Then Erica Mena is screaming call the cops! You don't call police in Hip Hop! Seriously. You don't go and provoke a fight then call the cops! PLEASE! If Kimbella did that with the footage Chrissy would have been locked up.

 Anyway Erica Mena calls the cops and Kimbella and Yandi take off their shoes ane with barefeet and make a run for it. You can't really involved the police because it makes it complicated.



The parting look is that Kimbella gave Erica a good wacking - you can see the paramedics attending to her. But still you can't look for trouble and then call the cops.





Boring Olivia still can't get a deal

Okay there was nothing really about last show, it sort of lagged. But this show, well Rich needs to realise that Olivia doesn't have star appeal. It's really that simple. Yes she is pretty, she can sing, she can dance but still there is something missing. The one thing which Louie Walsh mentions on UK X factor - she is not likable. She does not have the likablity factor.

That's what comes over. She is not even sweet natured. First she was slagging off Somaya and then she seems to be making trouble. She looks like one of those girls in gang who goes of making nasty comments and sort of laughing at other girls misfortune. She is too hard,.

The thing is that Olivia was give two chances based on looks alone and the public did not want her. Clive Davis and 50 cent G- Unit deal.  Face it, Olivia is just a back-up singer given a few too many breaks without delivering and now has become reality TV fodder.



Tuesday 6 December 2011

Love and Hip Hop series 2 show/episode 4: Cry me a river, Jim, Olivia and Mama Drama! WTF

Love and Hip Hop series 2 show/episode 4 is one heck of a drama. I thought it would lag but I was wrong. So wrong! Where do I begin?

First up is Jim and Nancy Jones. This is not fake or phony. I felt the man's pain but please he was crying! Tears were falling from his eyes. If you did not catch that bit go back on VH1 rewind and see his eyes were wet and tears rolling down his cheek. I don't get why he has to cry on TV. I just don't get it. A grown assed man crying on TV over female trouble.  You can cry dude but not on TV! It's private!


It got to the point that Nancy Jones backed down. I just wonder what sort  of hold Chrissy 'I will f*^k you up' Lampkins has on him because with all this love crying it isn't exactly like he has proposed to marry her. It's clear they love each other, have a good rapport and have a strong relationship but I'm not too sure. I've also noticed that according to Jim everyone should accept how Chrissy and makes allowances for her but he never holds her accountable for her actions. It's like he treads very carefully when she is involved a bit of pussyfooting. I don't get it.

My favourite character - yes Chrissy 'I will smash your face up' Lampkins. She has this chat with Jim Jones about Yandi and tells him she can do her job. You know what Chrissy? If you could you would be doing her job.  She can't do Yandi's job simply because Yandi is a professional. She is the only one whose breasts don't hang out. She may be wearing those loop earings like it going out of fashion but she dresses well. Also she proved her worth with the advice she gave Olivia.

Chrissy knows her weaknesses but still doesn't avoid them. She talks sense but when it comes to action I think she just blows up.

Olivia got a reality check about her stalling career. Like the A&R guy said she has had two chances already - Clive Davis and 50 cent why should she get a third. Anyway she crepted over to Yandi who gave her some solid advice. This is what makes Yandi good at her job - Chrissy Lampkins take note - you can't do her job.  Then Olivia started on the cliche mamma sob story. Didn't she just move out of her parent's apartments to her own place in show one. So I think someone might have said Olivia you need some drama story - either bullying or parent drama. Just watch show one again when she says I've moved from my parents NOT dad but PARENTS.

Kimbella. She trys too hard. Way too hard. How much insult can a woman take? Is it that important to be liked? Just get the exposure and move on with your life.

Monday 5 December 2011

Love and Hip Hop series: RUMOURS - Maino & Olivia to be first couple of Love and Hip Hop

Top hip hop site All Hip hop.com has set the rumour mill grinding alleging that Maino may appear in Love and Hip Hop. Right now the show's main man is Jim Jones which makes his female Chrissy 'I will F&%k you up' Lampkins first lady and queen bee of the show.

Maino who is alleged to be Olivia’s current boo. There ares some disgusting pictures of them tongue wrestling better known as kissing on the site. Anyway AllHiphop.com reckons Maino will be the ying to Olivia's yang.

If this rumour is true that  implications now is that will Olivia get more screen time rather than being Chrissy Lampkins side kick?

Who is this guy Maino? Good question because I've never heard of him till today so check out his website. http://www.mainohustlehard.com/  His music is a bit genric but maybe the show will give him a bit of publicity needed. He also needs to update and main his website as that is a major feature of his brand.

Saturday 3 December 2011

Love and Hip Hop series: Fabolous speaks out about his Baby Mama Emily, Kimbella the jump off and Ray J on the Angie Martinez



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Is Fabolous trying to capitalise on Emily's fame off  Love and Hip Hop? I thought he wasn't interested, anyhow Emily Bustamain's  baby daddy, Fabolous has now stepped up with to the mic giving an intervew to the lovely Angie Martinez about his views regarding what what he thinks is wrong with the show. Also why he hasn't appeared in it.

I have respected Fabolous for not giving in and being protrayed as a bitch on Love and Hip Hop and exposing his  private life for all those to see. At some points becomes too fake. I mean see how we already judge Jim Jones in his relationship to Chrissy Lampkin. Their relationship is like public property. However with dollar signs in his eyes Fabolous did say he would be open to doing the 'right kind of show'. black folk no fighting? Please.

Anyway he chats about Kimbella - the jump off, Emily B  and Ray J. Remember there was an incident earlier this year with Ray J acting all manly in Fabolous's face.
Check it out the interview on Angie Martinez website.
http://theangiemartinezshow.com/blog/2011/12/fabolous-12-1-11/

Check out Necole Bitchie's blog for the response of hostile Emily B fans and stans. The comments on that site never fail to make me laugh. Fabolous is not a popular man.
http://necolebitchie.com/2011/12/02/fabolous-dishes-on-relationship-with-emily-thoughts-on-love-hip-hop/#more-168487





Thursday 1 December 2011

Gina Yashere sold out show at Southbank Centre. GREAT !

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Gina Yashere was on top form at the Southbank Centre on 30th November 2011. It was completely sold out and a full house! Super Fantastic show.  Very refreshing comedy over all, I laughed till tears rolled down my face.

She covered topical material on the going back to Africa (Nigeria), Angelina Jolie, living in the USA, doing shows in Australia and the London riots. She also has a top number called the Toilet Ninja. That is a surperb routine and if I were Gina I'd close the show on that. It's so good.

I think she can only get better and hope one day she is doing bigger arenas like the O2.




Find out more about her and her DVD at her web site http://www.ginayashere.com

Move over Anthony Robbins there is a new kid in town Move over Anthony Robins there is a new kid in town and it's Robert Kiyosaki

It was good while it lasted but it seems there is a new wealth generating King Guru in town. Robert Kiyosaki. Anthony Robbins now going by the more informal Tony Robbins has being overthrown by Robert Kiyosaki in terms of followers. It's very interesting that it's now the generation of 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad' than the 'Unleash The Power Within' format. A bit like the 'MTV' and 'iPod'.

One deals with ourself the other just how to generate cash. It's about the money now, I guess. People just want to be rich rather than learning how to acheicve their goals, ambitions or anything else.

Interesting that there are even trends and patterns in wealth creation gurus and knowledge.

BBC2: Who Wants to be a Millionaire? Features Robert Kiyosaki and T Harv Eker the new wealth Super Gurus

I aint hating on those who what got get some money or grind but please! As I take a break and some time out before the next Chrissy Lampkin and Kimbella bust off - my favourite show Love and Hip Hop I'm back to some other TV, I came across the BBC's Who Wants to be a Millionaire? It's on BBC2.

Don't pay for a course and just watch this. It's enough to grasp with out paying lots of cash. It also features the new kid in town Robert Kiyosaki and T Harv Eker.   It gives a good insight into both Robert Kiyosaki and T Harv Eker views and has some clips from their seminar. Robert Kiyosaki gives basic advice coated in lots of motivational speak. T Harv Eker is more vague about his but I guess it has a nice feel factor to it. To quote the programme/show it says "It features renowned American wealth gurus Robert Kiyosaki and T Harv Eker, as well as a selection of their British followers, the film examines whether anyone can get rich if they truly apply themselves."

Now you know in addition to the lovely Chrissy Lampkin, Kimbella and the love and hip hop crew, I'm going to be following this show too!

However my bitching and review isn't about him -  about the whole industry and those who chose to overdose on it. They need a bit of a reality check but I guess if it weren't wealth seminars taking their cash it will be something else.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b017xgn6/Money_Who_Wants_to_be_a_Millionaire/


My Bitch Rant and Rave

This Who Wants to be a Millionaire? show is about the lucrative wealth programming market. Now the reason why I said I wasn't hating was because the only people that get money of these programs are the wealth coach. It's such a sorry a$$ situation. Seriously poor people wanting to be rich without putting in any effort part with some cash or a lot of cash to see attend these courses or wealth seminars that promise them unlimited wealth. They are seriously addictive and can be as powerful as drugs. These wealth seminars can easily be called classed a unphysical wealth narcotic.

To be balanced the BBC will show you two sides - those who have made money (mainly by investing in real estate/property market or becoming wealth coaches) and those who are really slaving away in debt and rubbish jobs to pay for these courses. It's a really difficult thing but people need to be honest with themselves and a lot of these people are self-delusional but you don't really want to rain on their parade.

To be fair before the bubble burst the quickest way to get rich was to invest in real estate or the  property market so none of those who are successful have done anything else in a business sense. Even banks were on to this before the toxic loan market thing happened. So it will be interesting to see if these guys are still as wealthy as they were before the economic crisis. Investing in property/real estate and shares require no real skills. No matter what anyone says it's really luck and common sense.  Over all land and property mostly increase but there will be some dips. A land or property is not worth anything if it's not bringing in an income - you might even be paying rates on it. 

Let me back up here from those who say they know people who have made cash from it. Yes, there will always be a few people do follow those principles and will get wealthy - but it's not just a bunch of affirmations and firm belief that will get you there. There are other factors involved. But the people that go are so desperate and needy that instead of spending money on a course or something to better themselves they will spend their hard earned cash on this rubbish.

I'm not one for the prosperity gospel movement but I think it's probably a bit healthier and cheaper to attend a church like that than to spend on wealth seminars. Then again it's the same gullible people who throw money at some preacher man.

The bottom line is that people what something for nothing and will pay lots of money to confirm that believe that. There is unlimited wealth but you have to find a way to harness it be it with skills or ideas repackage and sell it to others. You need to do what these wealth coaches are doing. They are only rich from selling ideas to others. Simple ideas that are really common sense. I do like the whole showmanship of it. I like the talk and high motivation aspect but in the end that is all it is. Entertainment. You step outside into the real world after attending one of these shows and after a while the effect wears off.

Louis Theroux (I love the guy!) covered it on his Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends television documentary series; it is called Hypnosis and it's worth watching.

http://www.veoh.com/watch/v276446SzMSKqbW?h1=Louis+Theroux+Vol+II+ep2

Why is it always the same sort of people. I'm not saying no one will be successful doing these gimicks wealth seminars - hey I was taken in by the whole Anthony Robbins thing. But the guy is just a good salesman telling me what I want to know or hear. Some people will win the lottery just like some people will get money from these schemes but in the end the only person who really gets money is the wealth seminars coaches and even they have to have a good talent for selling as not all of them are that successful at it.

Last word


I can't leave without some good words so this is it -  good coaching program I can recommend for free is the Tools to Life. Check it out on www.toolstolife.com.

Read books biographies about successful people - don't read authorised versions as they tend to honey coat things. Read the unathorised versions. Read about real success and leave the wealth seminars alone. Attend business events.

The real way but not guaranteed.

  1. Have your dream and vision of how you will achieve this.
  2. Write down steps in order to do this
  3. Do some research and seek out others - this may be just looking at what they are doing (it does not mean talking to them).
  4. Get some training if you need - an evening class or something - not wealth coach or seminar.
  5. If you feel you need to be accountable then maybe just maybe get a life-coach but someone with experience in what you want and evaluate their feedback.
  6. Start small - maybe a stall, selling door to door.
  7. There will be a time when you have to make a decision or see if it's what you want to do. When I started my business I realised I didn't really want to be cold calling and I also wasn't prepared to do what some clients wanted. Some of us are born entrepreneurs or business people. Others just wanted a job. These are on different levels remember that some of the most highly people in the world are employed or working for someone else. These included huge corporation CEOs - they are employed too. It's not a bad thing. Equally its not a bad thing to run your own business. We all are different!
  8. And remember the three Ps persistence, patience and perseverance.
  9. If you don't try you never know!


If you must do these wealth seminars do have a tally of how they are paying dividends in your life. Make it accountable - don't be like a child in a sweet shop or candy shop. Do one and take time out to see how it rewards you before you get sold the next. It's addictive for people to attend these wealth seminars because they get on a high and always want to hear more until one day they get so disillusioned, bitter and depressed but that is often after parting with thousands and thousands of dollars and pounds - the Internet is full of such people letting their hatred flow.

So do the courses but take breaks and see how they pay dividend or reward you in real life. Don't do one then hop unto the next always looking for the next wealth fix.

Other reviews you can read but I don't go to into details

BBC Business   http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-15256999

Guardian Newspaper http://www.guardian.co.uk/tv-and-radio/2011/nov/29/money-tv-review

The case of $95 million, Mel Tucker, Willy Bo-bo and inappropriate sexual conducts on the telephone.

Mel, Mel, Mel. It's tough. Mr Tucker. I discussed this case with someone and it's shame. It's a shame that it came to that. List...