Tuesday 29 May 2012

Basketball Wives season 4 Episode 15: Ratchet!!! Evelyn breaks 'G Code' and 'Friendship Code' to spill more secrets about Jennifer Williams, Shaunie is scared of how all this mess makes her seem.

Shaunie O'Neal asks Jennifer Williams to address it before Evelyn Lozada gets worse. She even admits there have been a few low and below the belt comments. Secrets are being revealed. Better to talk than address it via Twitter, blogs and magazine interviews. Jennifer agrees and says she will do it in her own time since Evelyn Lozada is a bit of a hot head.


Evelyn Lozada breaks the 'G Code' or 'Friendship Code'

Evelyn goes deeper into Jennifer Williams business with some explicit details really airing some dirty laundry about Jen. Too much details. Evelyn is still acting like a scorned lover. Is there something else behind it all?  A man, Suzie and Vegas. Oh well. Then she seems happy she had revealed the true Jennifer Williams to the world. I still don't get it. She breaks the 'code' and now she is happy. This is not really about Jennifer but Evelyn's loyalty to leave somethings behind. It's about the  unwritten G Code or Friendship Code. What is said in a friendship or group stays there. Not to be put on blast for millions of viewers on TV.


Jennifer delivers a classic line - “We all got skeletons,” Jen says. “Your ass got a whole cemetery. So leave me the hell alone.”


Jamie Foster Brown is brought into the argument as well regarding Jennifer Williams having an interview and talking about Evelyn. Jamie Foster Brown is the publisher of Sister2Sister.


Jennifer is fed up and decides to leave the island with Kenya following in tow.


Evelyn's  product placements and plugs


At the good bye dinner Evelyn uses the opportunity to plug her new make-up line and Tami Roman tells us it is made by the same people who make MAC. And Tami makes a dig about Jennifer Williams lip gloss - Lucid. Not sure why she did that but I guess it's to keep on Evelyn's good side. Still Tami did mention Lucid so it's still technically a plug.


Shaunie talks to her pastor


Shaunie O'Neal who has being getting a lot of flack for all this season decides to address it via scene with her pastor.  She tells the pastor she can't understand why all this conflict can be resolved in a civil way - not quarrels, fights and throwing bottles. Its really ugly.

Shaunie goes to her pastor who tells her what she is thinking. She can't have business meetings without her thinking people think she is a hot ghetto mess.


The pastor advises her she is now in a valley and to come up she may to leave these women behind her. She is scared that people think she is the same. The pastor tells her, it's not about the black women it is about her personal integrity before God, herself, her children and her family. That's what matter. True words.

What next for Basketball Wives? Is there going to be another season? Or is Shaunie going to be still part of the show? Can go two ways...


Thursday 24 May 2012

Basketball Wives season 4 Episode 14: Has Evelyn had lips done? Kenya cheated out of a fight and makes do with an apology. Evelyn accuses Jennifer of cheating and having extramarital affairs.

This is getting really ugly and I'm not sure I'd be watching season five. These are really the things that stood out for me.

 Tami Roman rationalise her behaviour like she has Kesha Nichols just had a civilised disagreement. You wouldn't think this was the woman who was acting deranged like rabies infected dog. She was saying maybe she and Kesha could talk things like adults. Tami just came over crazy and deluded.



Evelyn Lozada was no better regarding her non-relationship with Jennifer Williams. She wants everyone one to see how fake Jen is. The thing is does anyone really care? I think not. She also says Jennifer Williams has no loyalty to anyone - not even her husband Eric.



 I think Evelyn forgets its a play reality show and she is skating on thin ice.  Jennifer Williams does not want to be her friend. Will Evelyn try and understand that.  She is behaving like an obsessed jilted lover.

I'm also curious to know if Evelyn Lozada has had her lips done? They look like trout lips like too much fat has been injected - slightly 'adult industry' effect.



Kenya has to accept an apology for the bottle throwing when she really wants to deal with Evelyn. Evelyn proves to be a coward when she takes Kenya speaking badly to her. She knows she is no match for Kenya.

Jennifer doesn't want to talk to Evelyn and frankly the rest of the viewers are bored. We are pretty much with Jennifer on this one. Evelyn is behaving like a child or jilted lover. Is it so hard to move on? Why is Jennifer Williams so important to her? I don't get the fuss. Evelyn wants to keep it 100 percent. She wants to keep it real but no one really cares. Evelyn should accept Jennifer would not even spit in your direction.  It would be interesting to know why Evelyn is so angry at Jennifer.  It just seems more than a blog. It seems to be escalating with Evelyn taking up every single reason to be angry.  Maybe she doesn't like to be ignored. I'm not sure.
 


Evelyn breaks the G Code or Friendship Code


Finally, Evelyn hits gutter level when she insults Jennifer implying Jennifer had extra martial affairs during her marriage to Eric. That's ugly and hurtful. It's a  statement affects people wider than this show. I just think that was so unnecessary. Jennifer is currently going through a divorce and even a possible reconciliation. A remark like that can really complicate things. It also implies nothing in the long is safe with Evelyn Lozada.  It's about the unwritten G Code or Friendship Code.  One which Evelyn breaks and brands herself untrustworthy regardless of if those things about Jennifer were true or not. The thing about this show is that it show an ugly side to all these women.



Jennifer Williams must be really popular for Lozada to constantly seek her attention like that all the time.



Saturday 19 May 2012

Basketball Wives season 4 Episode 13: Bully Tami Roman goes ape at Kesha. Does Tami Roman need psychiatric care? Was Tami Roman set up and exploited by VH1 and Shed Media?


This was a crazy episode and the worst. We have two victims here. The  first on camera is Kesha Nichols and then off-camera is Tami Roman - 41 years old.  There is more than anger management with Tami Roman. It's more than bullying it more about drinking and self-control. The childhood trauma looks likes a reason. However as I say many things in normal life things never that far.

Suzie Ketcham -  Suzie Ketcham is one of those people who carry stories and gossip in order to get favour, fit in and get on in life. One day she is going to do something wrong and it will blow in her face. However it depends on the other person what they do with the information. So she's not someone to be trusted but used. So you don't tell Suzie Ketcham things unless you want it passed on. In the fourth season of this show every new cast member should know that now. So in a way you can't fault her because she only carries stories and everyone know that. Right now she comes over of those replusive because of the seriousness of the bully situation.

There was so much that was wrong with this show but it headlined Tami Roman bringing in the ratings.  So VH1 and Shed Media decided it was gold and ran with it. Biggest loser here - Tami Roman. Winners Shed Media & VH1 - ratings and pubicity, Kesha Nichols for being strong and not playing up to stupid, nasty horrible bullies.

Lesson girls is NEVER leave your purse behind.


It was so repugnant, nasty and horrible to watch. Too much liquor, booze and Tami means explosion! Why does she have to drink?
It sends a very bad message to young and impression girls and youth who think it's okay to behave this way.  IT IS WRONG TO BEHAVE THE WAY TAMI ROMAN BEHAVED ON CAMERA. DO NOT COPY HER AS SHE IS A HIGHLY PAID CAST MEMBER OF BASKETBALL WIVES.


DRUNK AND NUTS


Pond life and bottom feeder ghetto hood rat Bully Tami Roman went ape-sh&t at Kesha. Tami was a deranged animal and I wondered what psychiatric unit was missing a patient. Tami  went psychotic and not in a good way. I fear for the poor child... not Kesha I mean Tami.
 
Tami looked psychotic like someone who forgot to take their medication. Kesha is okay because ya'll know that they have security behind the scenes.

The thing is that everyone there is under contract and paid. So in normal situations someone would have intervened and stopped it before it got that far. You know friends who always want to fight and you have to drag them away from the situation. I think Tami is one of those otherwise by now she would have being in jail. Only thing is Tami has no friends on Basketball Wives. They are all co-workers on a show who are earning a salary.


Tami Roman forgets about filming 


Tami wearing Kesha's sunglasses and going through Kesha's phone

Then Tami had to break the golden rule on camera. The big no no. Go through someones bag and phone. That is invading someones privacy - but it's like Tami forgets about the camera.  She even put on the Kesha's sun glasses. Tami is very stupid and maybe need to seek professional help about drinking.

Was Tami set up by VH1 and ShedMedia?

In a way she was but being a fool at 41 years old Tami Roman did feel for it. She is paid to perform like a psychotic circus freak in need of psychiatric care and she did.

Now by season four the production company and people behind it have some knowledge about how these woman behave. They know that Tami Roman have no self control after taking a few drinks. They also know she takes this so called respect thing - which is really fear seriously. They know that Tami Roman is an ugly violent drunk.

VH1 and Shed Media also know that Tami Roman is in denial about how drinking turns her crazy. She thinks it's okay for her to have the one and two. Tami thinks her behaviour is acceptable and justified. However what Tami fails to see is even though she has know Shaunie O Neal, Evelyn Lozada and Suzie Ketcham for four seasons since 2010 they are not her friends. They are co-workers with a boss - the company they signed the contract with.

Now from a distance it looks like all cast members are instructed to let drama play out because if it gets serious there are security men behind the cameras to stop it. So in this case it never gets beyonds words.  However if Tami Roman was with friends it would have being stopped.


Tami Roman in the end was the loser. She came over a fool, bully and nasty.  I feel sorry for her because no matter how much you are making you never want to be shown in that way.

After this I doubt she shall be returning for the next season. In the aftermath it appears she has deleted her Twitter Account.


Tuesday 8 May 2012

Basketball Wives Season 4 Episode 12: Does Tami Ronan need Alcoholics Anonymous? Tami play Jekyll and Hyde with Kesha Nichols.Royce is clingy, needy and childish. Suzie Ketcham is Stupid, Ignorant and Pathetic.

Nothing much writing about apart from Royce who is so childish it's unreal. I see a new side to her now. She is like the rest - an attention 'me me me' seeker but in a different way.  Secondly Tami acts like a circus freak.

Royce Reed is clingy, needy and childish.

 Two words for Royce Reed. HIGH MAINTENANCE! Tantrums, whines and emotional blackmail.

How old is Royce? 3o and a mother too. What a high maintenance. High emotional maintenance - no one will put up with that in the long run. How old is poor Dezmon Briscoe? 22.

Royce Reed acts like a child and is constantly seeking attention only wanting to hear what pleases her. 'Oh I give them all my love' she whines and whines and whines. The little girl act. Royce contradicts herself in so ways. At one point her father is over-protective and she is daddy's girl then next her father doesn't love her for herself and she want him to her a father to her. Confused? So am I.

source VH1

Anyway her father is used to her tantrums and drama so ignores her. Dezmons feeling rather gallant runs after her only to get his ear chewed.

She over reacts and never wants to hear the truth. Even Dezmon Briscoe is not sure what Royce wants. Isn't she over seven years older than him? She is suppose to be the mature one.

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Now I see why Dezmon was texting his baby mother on the side. The dude can't do anything right in Royce's eyes. If Dezmon Briscoe is done with her I'd understand why. It's like she sucks all the air out of the relationship and suffocates him.


Tami Roman Bullies Kesha Nichols

It starts with a drinking session as always. Tami can be funny but she can also be a very nasty vile character. Tami  Roman has a Jekyll and Hyde personality especially when drinking alcohol is involved.

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Tami Roman needs  quit anger management and go maybe try Alcoholics Anonymous. Only because it seems when she drunks she changes personality and can't seem to restrain herself.

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 I think she is using her childhood as an excuse for her behaviour.  Lessons should have been learnt from the Jennifer situation. Kesha Nichols does not fight and settle things physically. Tami just came over ugly. She was picking a fight with Kesha all the way to the hotel. It's like she making herself angry for a showdown.

source VH1


She gets to a point where she lays into Kesha about what she said. Who cares, Tami? It's a show and once Kesha said it camera it's means to your face. Too silly to even start to understand. Disgraceful behaviour.We are talking about stuff which was way back early in the series for. Too silly to get into.

Anyway Kesha gets her own back by saying she ignored Tami and Tami just looked like a fool. Which is true. A fool and might we add a bully too.

Suzie Ketcham - Stupid. Ignorant. Pathetic.

I'm not sure what Suzie adds to the show but maybe in most groups of females there will be a Suzie Ketcham. I find her very irritating.

I'm not sure what Kenya Belly has done to Suzie Ketcham but Suzie seems to be talking about her a lot behind her back. A lot of nasty and snide remarks.  So not sure the motivation. However it's just her sycophantic and snivelling attitude that irritates me. She can only talk about those she thinks everyone dislikes. I'm not sure if it's the show or VH1 editing but regardless of how much she is making from the show she comes over irritating

Tuesday 1 May 2012

Basketball Wives Season 4 Episode 11: Is Tami Ronan daughter Lyric Anderson Anorexic? Royce should get a grip? Evelyn trolls on about Jennifer

  It's time Evelyn Lozada moves on or or come clean if there is another story behind beef with Jennifer Williams.


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Nothing much about the show apart from Evelyn Lozada still trying to justifiy her war and beef with Jennifer Williams. It brings out an ugliness and troll-like quality in Lozada.  Evelyn needs to get a grip - it becoming a bit crazy. If there is another reason why she is angry and vengeful at Jennifer then she should be honest. This is becoming way past a blog entry or Nia Crooks. There is too much emotion - it seems to drive her. 
Evelyn and Tami Source VH1

 If it's only about Nia Crooks and the blog Evelyn needs to get over it and understand that Jennifer Williams doesn't want to hang with out or be friends with her any more. On another note as many people have commented Chad Johnson Ochocinco's baby mothers need to take note. I hope Evelyn Lozada is just acting up for the cameras and isn't that quick to get angry  or keep on at a lost cause. 

Is Tami Roman's daughter Lyric Anderson Anorexic?

In the dance session with Royce Tami Roman's daughter looked so underweight. She looked anorexic. Tami is saying her daughters are athletic maybe Jazz is but Lyric? The girl looks like she will break.
Lyric far right in front of Tami Source VH1


 There is thin and there is very underweight. It was slightly disturbing to see. She might be sickle cell but even then the child looked like a poster child for the African Famine adverts. Too thin, way too thin - so thin her sister Jazz looked twice her size.

Royce clingy chick loves again

 Royce goes around behaving like she is the only person who has a father. She calls him over-protective well I don't think he is. He is just telling her the truth about all her son seeing her with all those 'uncles'. Also saying it's too quick with Dezmon. Was it just me who noticed it was edited out of sequence.  This scene seems before the father met Dezmon however two weeks in episode 9 the father had already met with Dezmon Briscoe.

She acts like a little girl you wouldn't know has a son at home. She does play up the baby girl image.

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 Royce was a bit of a drama queen holding that little dog just made me cringe while she cried 'Daddy'. 
Royce and Robert Reed sourc VH1

I love how Royce justifies her serial relationships by saying I'm a relationship girl - I don't date. Maybe just try and be single for a while.

To be far as her father says she can date - I'm too not sure why she needs to jump in deep - maybe she is just addicted to love and the feeling of being in love - who knows?

Anyway after parading Dezmon Briscoe around she had egg on her face from all his baby mother and other chicks coming out on twitter saying he was also sampling their deserts.

for indepth blog about this episode 11 read it at VH1
http://blog.vh1.com/2012-04-30/basketball-wives-episode-11-its-not-always-about-you/#more-206339



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