Love & Hip Hop Atlanta: Exposed and Unfiltered - the Puerto Rican Princess - Joseline Hernandez is still my favourite cast member, A LGBT spat about pronouns between Mimi, Ariane and Chris

We all know this show is a hot MESS. Hoes, bitches and corner dogs gathered in a mansion to confront each other. Oh yeah, and it rolled. With all the drama and lack of time, I've decided just to blog on the reunion!

Noticeable absence was Erica Dixon, who  removed herself from the equation and has moved on to bigger and better things - penning a children's books, designing clothes and looking at the a future without all the drama. I wish her well and success with her future endeavours. 

The Puerto Rican Princess - Joseline Hernandez

I don't care how messy Joseline is I still like her - fake or not - this show is about her. Without her there will be not SHOW. She is such good TV, and I'm happy in some ways she has grown in some ways. Tammy too is dignified.

I'm only catching up on the Reunion show and I must say, Joseline after all these years is still my favourite cast member. Then Bambi because despite everything she shows some classiness in the situation.

Then Joseline hijacks the show with her pregnant. Not sure, why and don't ask me, I have a soft spot for her.

LGBT fight between Ariane and Chris (Mimi's former lover).

Chris wants to be identified as a man, even though she is still a women. Ariane the resident LGBT member thinks Chris is shady and call her a girl. So there is a bit of a spat. Since Chris says because she can't afford surgery and hormones it doesn't mean she can't identify as a man.

So at some point it becomes physical between Ariane and Chris. Man or no man, my money would have been on Ariane to whoop Chris's ass.

Stevie J and The Puerto Rican Princess - Joseline Hernandez have a heart to heart.

Stevie doesn't think the baby is his. Joseline does 'a Joseline' and doesn't seem bothered with his attitude. Stevie demands respect and an apology but to be fair how can he ask Joseline if the baby is his Then again Joseline said she's cheated on him with women not men. Stevie is annoyed so he walks out.

Oh dear.

Anyway Joseline apologises (I suspected convinced by the crew and executive producer). Stevie and Joseline make up - but they are resumed their social media fight - instagram and social media.

 Yeah, that's all I have to say. The King family are too messy for me even to begin.

I heard the whole cast may be getting fired and next season will have a brand new one. Not sure, what I think about.



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Thank you to my readers who read my reality blogs on R&B Divas, Love and Hip Hop and Basketball Wives.

Thank you for reading my blog regarding all the reality shows I watched. It's being a great journey watching them and writing up about what I thought.

I decided not to write about them any more because it was no longer fun. When I first started these shows were exciting - I loved watching the Love and Hip Hop New York series - then I got hooked on the Basketball Wives. I was blogging before but also as soon as I started to write about these dysfunctional but entertaining people I started to get hits. So I got greedy for more hits and I would talk about was how many hits I was getting to anyone that listened.

After the Lozada and Tami Roman situation - I wasn't sure about blogging but the hits kept on coming. I knew the casts of these shows were mostly wannabes desperate for fame or a lot of has beens like Benzino Ray Scott or Stevie J that wanted a comeback. But it was still exciting. As bad and horrible as the drama and conflict got I was glued to screen and more people were reading my blog.

Now after R&B Divas I've decided to take stop because though it's easy to write about reality shows it wasn't what I set out to do. In fact I'm not really sure what I wanted. Well I am. I wanted attention by people reading what I had to say. I wanted to be popular and looking how many times someone read a blog post made me happy but in the end I took no pride in criticising or trying to make sense of these attention seekers. What I realised was by writing about them I was becoming part of the reality show machine. I just want to write fiction. Simply write.

I see many bloggers especially on You Tube they start with a good idea but end up with doing reality shows or celeb gossip because it's what gets the youtube hits. I watch them and have my favourites but it's no longer what I want to do.

Thank you very much once again for reading my posts. I'll probably still watch the shows but just for fun - and not to comment and review on them. I will drop the odd blog once in while as I said I'm not sure what I'm going to be doing yet.

UPDATE: 26 JULY 2013



Things have changed since then and as you can see I've continued writing. Sometimes the negativity on these shows are too much and to relive it again by writing about it is too much. And at other times nothing really happens but now I've found a solution and just do a brief summary as is in some episodes of R&B Divas Atlanta.

I do write fiction as well and check me out on Smashwords.   So as long as I have time and there are shows I like and want to write about. I will.

 
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Love And Hip Hop Atlanta Episode 11: The Reunion Part 1 - A bunch of timewasters Mimi is sharing Stevie J with Joseline, Erica Dixon needs a stylist, Rasheeda tries to hit K Michelle, Karlie refuses to tell her age , all women share their breast implant stories but deny having any butt implants.

Really? This was a waste of TV time. Ratchets, hoes and bitches with pimps. The reunion was about nothing again. It was the same old same old thing with no solid resolution. I'm only covering what I remember so for an in depth coverage of the 14 moments check out the VH1 blog.

The only person I've liked through out is Joseline because she has always seemed honest, straight and to the point. And she was the best dressed at the reunion. Somebody had cleaned up her ratchet style and called in a stylist.

 I'm not going into the horrible things said about Joseline because I don't have time and also I think it's due the fact she is muscular due to weight training and doing climbing (I think at one point she was a personal trainer) also she had her implants in a certain way they don't look right. It does irritate me with people carry on with the joke because it's unfair and hurtful. But then Joseline is the one cashing the checks so I doubt she cares that much.

 

Okay it opens with a thristy for attention Mona Scott hosting the fight pit - sorry I mean floor for the cast members. Erica Dixon is dressed like a street-corner hooker - what exactly was she wearing? Wasn't that some kind of underwear/lingerie? Pretty face but really she needed a stylist. The others all looked like off-duty hookers apart from Mimi who looked boring.


Anyway KMichelle starts bitching with Karlie. Karlie refuses to tell her age nor the age of her daughter because that will just us an idea of an age range for Karlie - maybe she has grey pubs downtown. The marching with Martin Luther King put down was a classic.And no she isn't signed to Cash Money but some complicated relationship with her manager working there makes it seem in a round about complicated Karlie way. Whatever.

Anyway since Karlie said she was hanging with Mimi back in LA we know she will be about forty or over.


Then Mona asks who has implants. K Michelle says her bottom is all hers, so does Karlie and Joseline - however all three says they have breast implants. For the record Mimi hasn't has any. Who really cares?

 Maybe Karlie wears butt pads. Even Joseline's rear behind looks odd on some occasions.

K Michelle and Rasheeda get messy about this Memphitz domestic violence situation with Rasheeda stepping up to fight however the security pulled her away.

At some point Scrappy, Erica, Stevie J and Erica share the stage. They talk about the fight. Now after watching Joseline punching Stevie J I know Erica Dixon is all mouth. She was probably just mouthing off because security was there. Even when they stood to fight I think it was all show.

The only thing was it seemed that fool Scrappy forgot he had a probation officer. We see him propose next week to Erica.


The famous threesome Mimi, Stevie J and Joseline.


The answer is YES and NO to the famous question. YES, Mimi is still seeing Stevie J as she gave a roundabout answer - he is the father of my child. And NO, Stevie J hasn't stopped seeing Joseline. I don't think any of us thought any different.

Stevie J did called Ariane a hater but I think maybe at some time she must have declined or gotten kicked off the Stevie J bus.

Joseline was doing the usually the mouthing off - she was there for his money and his private parts - well d&ck be precise. And it seemed none of the women wanted to marry him.

Though Stevie J said he wasn't the marrying kind. There is a strange side to Stevie J - he takes marriage vows seriously and since he can't commit to the vows he won't take them. That says a lot.  He also said he was insensitive to Joseline and he behave like a jerk. Don't worry Stevie we always knew you were a dick and jerk, we are just glad you realise too.

For an in depth coverage of the reunion read VH1 blog here.  http://blog.vh1.com/2012-08-27/14-unmissable-moments-from-the-love-and-hip-hop-atlanta-reunion-part-i/

Love And Hip Hop Atlanta Episode 8: Joseline whups, kicks and beats up Stevie J while Mimi cheers on, Fat Deb Antey humilates Kirk, Shay and Scrappy go public and the rest of the show goes on

'Let me at him! Let me at him' cries Joseline

What can I say? Nothing much but it's just got a level that I don't even understand! There was only part I missed out which was Mimi and her brother only because I think it's a private family matter.





Whiny Mimi and Stevie J the Jerk

While their daughter Eva is playing unattended in the sandpit and putting sand in her mouth, her parents Sleazy Stevie and Mimi decide to discuss their relationship. Wasn't this suppose to be quality family time? I'm sure Eva Jordan would like a little push on the swings or roundabout - but heck no, Mummy and Daddy have to fulfil their contract to Vh1.

 

Mimi tells him not to take her for granted – she is not so cool that anything goes. Whiny Mimi is a little too late for that - Sleazy Stevie has already hit the strip joint and got himself a stripper. If that’s not taking Mimi for granted I’m not sure what is.

Stevie J then talks about still managing Joseline and  Mimi moans she can’t trust Stevie to be professional.  

Stevie J makes those puppy dog rat faces and says like everyone he has his own personal Vietnams and Mimi agrees. Then he drops a bombshell – he wants Joseline to join them in therapy. He wants them to sort it all out. What exactly is he is sorting out?

'No Reciepts' Karlie and Joseline clear the air.

Karlie invites Joseline for lunch to make peace at VH1 and Mona Scott's expense. Joseline appears but isn't in the mood for any chitchat. So Joseline cuts through all the bull and is straight to the point.

  “Ok, well your manager can’t agree with my manager if he’s no longer my manager,” says Joseline. “You don’t have to do a song with me, you can just work with Stevie.”

There is some talk about Stevie J and as usual Joseline thinks that every woman wants to sleep with that sleazy rotten love rat Stevie J. “Why was you so worried about me messing with Stevie anyway? You must want to mess with him.”  

Joseline forgets Stevie J is an ugly sex-crazy rat who has to plug every walking hole once it has a pulse, two tits and a heartbeat. So please, get over yourself, Joseline, not every woman wants that.

 Karlie is quick to correct her that she has a man but Joseline doesn't really care. Anyway, Karlie tells Joseline she is now with Bezino the irrelevant.

Joseline says Karlie looks like she is in love. Right on cue Karlie blushes and bursts into a nervous laughter.  Joseline has hit a spot there - maybe Karlie does have deepish feelings for the cold and Irrelevant Bezino. Joseline is like Bezino is my brother so make sure you do him right.

That's what I like about Joseline - straightforward and honest.  Joseline is unsure about 'No Receipts' Karlie because she thinks Karlie is all fake and phony however will give her a chance.


Crappy Scrappy, Shady Shay and Bossy Boot Rasheeda.

 Finally Crappy Scrappy is in the studio. The dimwitted mama's boy Scrappy finally got with the program and realised this show is about publicising music and mixtapes not babymomma and child support drama. Next to him is Shady Shay gyrating and jiggling her boobs while doing some bad twerk stripper moves (maybe Joseline should give her lessons).

 Rasheeda walks in to this lovefest and she hugs Shady Shay - apparently Rasheeda  know Shay from the industry.  Rasheeda is like Scrappy just broke up with Erica. She questions Scrappy and he gives her the 'Shady Shay is just a friend' and 'Shay is a homie' line. 

 
Rasheeda tells dullard Scrappy that Erica was hurt and crying. Can you believe this immature man gets excited over Erica's pain. Scrappy is such an imbecile! Rasheeda tells this moron (Scrappy) he needs to stop messing with Erica's mind - he needs to be done done! Scrappy says he is done done then changes the subject to talk about their collaboration on his mix tape.


The Cold & Irrelevant Benzino and 'No Recepts' Karlie

I must be missing something about Karlie's career. Karlie is a beautiful woman but what exactly does she do? All this fussing over her career. Karlie Who? As KMichelle says where is her wikipedia page seems she has one up http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karlie_Redd . 

Anyway I digress, Benzino sets up a photo-shoot with his magazine to convince Karlie's manager he is good for her career. Who cares about all this? Again, what career exactly does Karlie have - weave, lip gloss and some booty modelling? Why does a man who is over 45 with grey pubs care about what her management say?

 I don't and in the words of Joseline - it comes over fake and phony. That's exactly why I think Benzino is irrelevant and cold  in this show.  And until I get another name I shall be calling him the Cold & Irrelevant Bezino.

She gives him a with a puzzle piece and the whole thing comes over a little awkward.

However more awkward is that Sir Ugly (in a cute way)-Cold-and-Irrelevant Bezino rides up on a motorbike like a knight in shining armour to his jeweller to get some a little something for Karlie in return. He drones on about how complete and special Karlie makes him feel. Yawn.

For some reason he chooses a ring that looks like an engagement or friendship ring and says he has goose bumps. Whatever.  Ugly (in a cute sort of way). Irrelevant. Cold.

 
The Crappy Scrappy mixtape party

These guys have a launch party for everything - even having a wash with a bar of soap is an occasion on this show!

The girls meet up  and for the first time Erica is missing! Rasheeda tells them about Scrappy and Shady Shay - about the 'homie and friends' interacting with a kiss. Memphis motormouth starts about how someone needs to tells Erica because they are her friends. 

 Rasheeda doesn't want to get involved. Well who cares because we know Memphis Motormouth K Michelle thinks interfering in these things is her duty. First of all, it's none of her business and secondly, Erica and that imbecile Scrappy have broken off.

Scrappy comes in with Shay and Rasheeda hugs her. Shady Shay is dressed in a orange dress that shows off her underwear and Scrappy looks like a Soulja Boy wannabe reject.  It even occur to K Michelle that if Erica was still important in the Child Support evader's life she would have been at the mixtape party.

Erica and  K Michelle  go in circles about men

KMichelle as promised sticks her long face and big nose where it's not wanted. In Scrappy and Erica's business. Erica has a reason or excuse for Scrappy's behaviour - basically he doesn't like to be alone.

“I’ve been dealing with Scrappy for years. He cannot be by himself. Period. He’ll meet a bitch at the gas station and they buddy buddy.” she explains to KMichelle who has a fake sympathetic look on her face.

Bottom line is that Erica still thinks Scrappy want to be with her.  For some reason it's like she is waiting for Scrappy to see some sort of light and come back to her. Maybe this is why she always takes him back.

Ariane and Whiny Mimi

Whiny Mimi needs to vent so she calls up her Ariane. Boring, yawn, yawn. She just whines about the same old stuff. Stevie this and Stevie that, Joseline this and Joseline that.

This chick can't seem to move on - not even when this jerk is making a fool out of her in front of two million VH1 viewers. Whiny Mimi comes over deluded as to the state of play or maybe she is going through the motions for the stake of VH1 and Love and Hip Hop fans. I'm not sure which. That paycheck must be huge!

Doormat Kirk finally hit loser rock bottom with Fat Deb Atney

Why not kick Kirk in the balls and be done with it? Humiliation know no boundaries where poor doormat  and walk-over Kirk is involved.

 He goes for a complete and utter dressing down by fat Deb Atney who looks like she eats a super-sized bucket of KFC chicken at one go. Deb Atney runs her mouth so badly at Kirk I'm thinking how much money are they paying Doormat Kirk for this humiliation? Please, has the man no pride?

Doormat Kirk tries to tell it as it is but Fat Debs Atney lets him have it. She has watched Rasheeda climb and decline and delow which really means Kirk has always being the common denominator.

 
“It’s about coming from under the ground. She’s dirty. She’s stinking. She wanna come up for air....,” says Fat Deb. What can he say to that? I know Doormat Kirk has being violated again.  

The two cold and irrelevant uglies meet up: Sleazy Stevie J and Benzino.


Isn't it strange that Bezino was playing pool by himself? or maybe he was playing with the VH1 crew before Sleaze bag Stevie turned up. Why Benzino his jeans hanging like he is in his teens or early twenties. Too old. too ugly - in a cute way. Just too wrinkly to be doing wearing that style.

Anyway Stevie is treating the whole counselling and therapy thing like it's a game. The jerk is proud about getting both Joseline and Mimi to agree to go. Benzino is not sure it's a good idea. At least Benzino has more sense than that jerk Stevie J and tells him it's about who he chooses. They talk about Karlie and Benzino tells him about the jeweller - Sleaze-bag Stevie is impressed.

Stevie J. Joseline and Mimi with Dr. Jeff and the moment we have all being waiting for!

Stevie J finally confesses he loves both Joseline and Mimi.

Do you see his smile every time he mentions Joseline? His beady rat eyes light up in pleasure. He says Joseline is his artist, friend and business partner. Mimi is like I'm your business partner too. Let's cut all this bull rubbish and be honest - Mimi is wasting her time with Stevie J. Stevie J wants out of the relationship but doesn't seem able to say that. I think he's afraid of leaving Mimi and wants her to leave him first.  They are both caught up in some sort of web. One of them has to let go otherwise it will be always this rebound play of on and off.

Joseline is confused to why she has to go to the counselling/therapy session but it's probably in her VH1 contract so she couldn't refuse.

Joseline walks in and the Dr Jeff starts to talk to her. She tells him what Stevie said Mimi was then gives him the history of their relationship.

Then Stevie wipes the sweat off Joseline's nose. Why is he always touching Joseline's nose? Anyway Mimi is shocked.  Dr Jeff is tells him it's passive aggressive.  It all hits the fan when Mimi tells Joseline that she and Stevie are back living together.

BAM! Stevie J gets a fistful of Joseline and she beats him better than Scrappy did!


 Joseline sees red and gives him a left hook.  POW!

 

Mimi quickly moved over to let Joseline have full access to Stevie J. Whack!

Quickly the security get involved but Joseline is mad and she has it in for Stevie J. They take him out of the room. Thump!

 Dr Jeff tries to calm Joseline down but she is so upset about Stevie J's betrayal she shrugs them all off.  Joseline was so strong that no one or man could restrain her.

Joseline hitting Stevie J  gave Mimi a sweet sense of satisfaction and she smirks her way to the end of the show.

To be honest we all know Stevie J is going back to beg Joseline for more! This picture  was taken a lot later proves it. Maybe Stevie likes tough love with good twacking and whupping from time to time.  I bet Mimi will still be whining about Stevie but let's face it the jerk has moved on to who calls the shots - Joseline!

Love And Hip Hop Atlanta Episode 7: Mimi and Stevie J go for Counseling, Benzino show Karlie he is still relevant; KMichelle makes Mimi's pain into music, Scrappy plays pool with Shay, KMicehelle goes dating and the rest of the show goes on....

Recent image at NYC

Love and Hip Hop Atlanta is my SHOW! I love it! I'm not covering boring Bossy Boots Rasheed and Doormat 'I've been violated' Kirk. Over those two they don't match the rest of the show.

This I'm just picking out a few points and I'm starting backwards with the counselling first then working my way down.



Sleazy Stevie J and Whiny Mimi go for therapy

I'm not sure what Whiny Mimi whats to achieve by all this. Anyway Sleazy Stevie admits he is a liar and is a cheat. It's a bit uncomfortable and painful to watch and at times I wonder what Mimi thinks she will gain from this. Some things aren't just for the camera. And this is one of them. Stevie J is just wants to stop fighting. He's a loverman unless it's horizontal fighting in bed!

But what sums it for me is that he says he is not in love with Whiny Mimi though he wants her happy. He loves her but isn't in love with her. Isn't that the classic break up line? When asked about Joseline he pauses and says he loves her ... like a friend. Is Joseline Sleazy J's sexual napalm - in the words of John Mayer? He can't see to get enough of her and dribbles like a dog smacking and licking his lips everything she is near - even when they are fighting.

Joseline collection via twitter

Face it Joseline has a banging body, bigger breasts (even if badly done implants big is big ) and bigger Rear. Behind. Butt.  Booty. than Whiny Mimi will ever have unless Mimi gets some implants - go figure.  Joseline's body is banging (even if very muscular and hard) and Stevie J just wants something new and exciting - not the constant nagging. He doesn't want to fight any more.

Then they go into the therapy bull (I break it down at the bottom of the post) about abandonment issues but Stevie J's mother and Mimi by her mother too.  Same old but the most important thing I think is that Stevie J said he wasn't in love with Mimi so more than likely will stray again if someone else catches his eye!


NEXT WEEK! Does Joseline Sucker Punch Stevie J

And next week in Stevie J invites Joseline it counselling, can you believe it? Mimi starts saying that Stevie is living with herand Joselene sucker punches Stevie J - can't wait for that ya'll!

Where does Stevie J really Live?

Memphis motormouth K Michelle makes music out of Mimi's pain

Whiny Mimi goes to see K Michelle who has written her for her. It's about Mimi's pain and Joselene getting pregnant. She says it's about the situation Mimi has with Stevie J. I'm not sure it's any of her business but Mimi seems to like the song - probably because the song is a whine, moan and nag about Sleazy Stevie womanising ways - not forgetting the pregnant chick, too.

Memphis Motor mouth K Michelle asks Mimi the vital question - “Is the counselling for this to be a relationship, or is the counselling for you to raise your child together, to co-parent?” Mimi tells her it's just they so they can stay in the same room together. Well at least this situation is providing someone with inspiration.

Karlie Redd and her stupid Manager Malcolm Miles.

Karlie meets her manager Malcolm Miles who asks he what she is doing. Well just about everything - skin creams, lip gloss (what is it with lip gloss) and hair line etc. She also tells him she is seeing Benzino.

Malcolm tells Karlie to dump Benzino because he is cold - is that like dead? Malcolm tells Karlie that Benzino is irrelevant today and she needs to be seen with someone hotter and more relevant than Karlie.

“In the public eye I don’t know how people looking at Benzino right now,” Malcolm says. “If it’s somebody hot and relevant that’s gonna put you in a certain light—then maybe.” 

Karlie  isn't listening to Malcolm and tells him that isn't right what he is saying and every girl needs love sometimes. She needs a loves as well.

Is Malcolm Miles jealous about Benzino?

Karlie gets breakfast in bed at Benzino's crib

Karlie gets serves breakfast in bed by Benzino. Then he gives her the key to his house - wow! This Benzino dude is in love - well behaves it.

Talk about timing - she tells him about what Malcom said. Benzino is really hurt and tells her she needs to decide if it's about the her or the industry.  “If you want to let them guide your life, and everything has to be hot and cold or whatever, they need to get you a hit motherf$&ing record, ’cause it’s not like you’re so mothef$&king hot yourself either,” Bezino says to Karlie. He does have a point - I never knew about she was till this show.

 The man looked like he was in pain and hurt.  I guess to be called a has-been and irrelevant isn't nice. He tells her to know what she wants because he can't go through all that and live his life like that. Karlie consoles him - she is old enough to know that fame isn't everything. She can do a lot worst than Benzino.

Later on Bezino to show Karlie he still has clout and is relevant in the music industry he introduces Karlie to Vincent Herbert, Lady Gaga‘s manager. She is all excited and keeps on caressing and touching Benzino his arm. She seems to honestly like Benzino - there is an easy chemistry between them.

Let's keep this 100% Vincent can't even make his own wife a star and maybe Gaga was a one off but still whatever. Also how many exec ask him to meet their latest wives, girl friends or jump off. So he tells them the same thing. Oh how talented they are!


Whiny Mimi sees Sleazy Stevie J sings

Mimi and Erica go see Memphis motormouth KMichelle sing at some show. Stevie J hops on the stage in a vest - like he's being cleaning and had a hard day on a chain gang all day. He starts to sing. He sings badly - he should really stick to producing. The whole thing is out of tune and frankly is embrassing. I'm sure Mimi wanted to ground to open and swallow her.

  She isn't impressed. Then he walks to her and asks he to come outside. She goes then starts whining about how much he has hurt her. “I don’t think you understand how much you hurt me, I really don’t,” Mimi says. “You hurt me to the core,” she whines as tears roll down her waterproof makeup and cheeks.

Sleazy Stevie J says he doesn't want to fight anymore - probably just wants to make love - I'm a lover not a fighter to quote the late Micheal Jackson. After some time Sleazy J leads Whiny Mimi away - looked like they were going for make-up sex!

Crappy Scrappy and Shady Shay play pool

This guy took the couch from his baby momma house! What is his child suppose to sit on? What a fuckwit and loser! Scrappy is whining about Erica saying he will get his lawyers involved and Erica is trying to use the child support payments to get back with him. Shay is practical and tells him don't get the authorities involved because it will turn messy.

 Keep away from lawyers, child support officials and the police Shay Johnson warns him and tells him he should try to come to some agreement with Erica. Shay makes good sense it's just a pity that Scrappy is a fool and loser.

Joseline and Sleazy Stevie J play fight

Joseline is working with another producer when Stevie J walks in. There is so much that is wrong with this. Let's be 100% -  Stevie J does not care who Joseline works with once she is not having sex with them.  He has no time for professional jealousy. Joseline and Stevie J have a little banter but it's really a kind of flirting that couples do. They are probably going to have sex after that scene.

Pretty much what Stevie was saying  to Joseline is she can work with who she wants but she is his!

 K Michelle - is she a man eater?

Memphis motormouth K Michelle is very good with one liners but I'm not really sure about her constant talking without brakes. She goes on a date with a guy and basically is very upfront. She just attacks with her mouth - even if it's in a nice way. Too much. That can frighthen off some people. She tells him she likes his lips and then they start to kiss - whatever.

Then she goes to ask her ex college boyfriend for advice. He tells her the same old bull rubbish about the picking the wrong kind of men. Whatever. I don't think he had anything new or interesting to say.

 
Whiny Mimi and Sleazy Stevie J: counselling and therapy break down.

Having watched enough Oprah, Dr Phil and Jerry Springer this is my summary of the the love triangle.  Mimi and Stevie J have been disappointed with their mothers. So Mimi tries to be a nurturer and mothers that Stevie J.


In turn Sleazy Stevie J responds to the mothering instinct in Whiny Mimi. He doesn't want to her hurt, the way you don't want to keep on hurting your parent. However she no longer represents his passion, excitement and erotic danger.

 This change probably came about when she had the baby since women's priorities change with childbirth. It does not mean Stevie is right - it's just how it is. The baby is the most important which then demotes Stevie J. He now sees Whiny Mimi in a different role as a mothering figure as opposed to his lover. Good or bad sometimes having children can change a relationship esp when Stevie already had four baby mothers on the go.

Mimi is the Stevie J's mother figure so he will tend go back to her (hence on and off for 15 years). She nurtures, comforts and encourages him. Mimi is familiar comfort zone to Stevie J. Joseline represents the passion, excitement  and red heat- she is Stevie J's lover. He needs to rekindle this passion back in his relationship with Mimi if it's possible - or more importantly if he wants to.

But also in another way Joseline manipulates Stevie J by acting like a little lost girl. She treats him like a mentor and saver (rescued from the strip club) figure.

 She looks up to him though now she is stepping up. So not only does Stevie find her exciting he also feels responsible for her. It also makes him feel like a hero - a real man.

Put it this way. Mimi is his hold down and comfort zone - always be there. Joseline represents Stevie J's passion, danger and unknown.  Deep inside he also feels responsible because he saved her from a strip club.

He wants Whiny Mimi and Joseline because they balance what he seeks. A lover and a mother figure. In the end, Mimi will probably get Stevie J when the passion and heat burns out with Joseline. But is that what she really wants?